Is there something you want to do but get nervous every time you attempt
it? Do you believe that it's impossible to not be nervous about it? Do
you want to build some confidence? Here's how to do it in a few easy
steps.
Steps
- Get regular physical exercise.
Find a way out which reduces your stress through a fun activity like
walking or jogging, swimming, biking, yoga, tennis or dancing...Do
something that makes your blood flow and you'll kick out that stress
from your body.
- Meditate. This is an
ancient way to remove stress, pain and panic from your body. While
meditating, just relax and think nice, pleasant thoughts.
- Talk to a pet or stuffed animal. If you have a favorite stuffed animal or a pet, they are the best about calming you down. They will listen to you and cuddling
with your pet if it is the animal you want to relax with. If not, just
talk to them and tell them about being nervous about what you are going
to do. Pets are a real comfort.
- Listen to your favorite music. If you have a favorite song, listen to it and get your mind totally off it.
- Create a Zen bedroom It is not against anyone's religion, it is just a place where you leave worries at the door.
- Start out simple. Before attempting the entire thing, just do a bit of it. Then a bit more, then another bit more. Do not use this as an excuse for not attempting it often.
- Attempt to do the entire thing. Don't stress out or panic. Remember, you can pause at certain times.
Tips
- Beware that you can't take control on every situation: learn how to move on, try
and be ready to behave with all possibilities, learn to accept the
unknown, sometimes, cause clinging with the certitude and permanency is
the best way to sadness.
- To relax your mind you should relax your body: everybody
bears stress and tensile in his muscles and joints. Did you notice one
day how much your mind is net after having a warm bath or a good
massage? So relaxed body gives relaxed mind!
Warnings
- While attempting what makes you feel nervous, stay safe. If
your goal has anything to do with dangerous things, make sure you don't
stress or panic. This can make you lose focus and possibly get hurt.
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