How to Avoid Looking Nervous

Have you ever felt nervous and hoped it didn't show? If so, this is the article for you. Recognizing what you do when you're nervous and how to stop doing it is the key.  

Steps:

1. If your case is severe, begin with people you know.
2. Before you begin to speak, pause for a moment and consciously breathe in and exhale.
3. Endeavor to relax your entire body. Instead of thinking about your nervousness, concentrate on the other person, their likes and dislikes. Ask viewpoint questions of them such as, what do you think? or how do you feel about?... This will help you to concentrate on them rather than yourself and to relate to them in a calm and dignified manner.
4. Be aware of your appearance. Your poise, or lack of it, is shown by your physical bearing and the way that you use your hands. Hands clasped behind the back, held rigidly at the sides, or hands repeatedly in and out of pockets, buttoning and unbuttoning the jacket, aimlessly moving to the cheek, the nose, the eyeglasses; hands toying with a watch, a pencil, a ring, all of these demonstrate a lack of poise. With conscious effort these manifestations of nervousness can be controlled.
5. Work on just one at a time. Identify the problem, and consider in advance what you need to do to prevent it. If you make that effort, you will give evidence of poise in your physical bearing.
6. If you are talking to someone, look at them, don't look at your shoes or that nice picture, look at them. There doesn't have to be eye contact, just look in their direction.
7. Know that the average person is made up of 70% water. Regardless of who we are speaking with, from the CEO of the company to the janitor, they are nothing more than a large water bag. We all put our pants and shoes on the same way no matter who we are.
   
   

Tips

• Plan ahead when you know you are doing something that makes you nervous. Know it is going to happen so you can counter it.
• Don't think too much about not looking nervous, it could cause a mess up and that would be even worse.
• Try to look casual whenever nervous, so as to not give your nervousness away.
• Don't wring your hands or play with your hair. Some people do these things without even realizing it.

Warnings

• Do not expect all feelings of nervousness to disappear. You may still feel nervous, but others may not be aware of it at all.

 

9 Tips To STOP Getting Nervous Around GIRLS 1. Find the CORE ISSUE. Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms. For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching, take the first step, and feel nervousness. So they will try to clamp down on the nervousness. Suppress it. Or they just try to ignore it. Needless to say, it doesn’t usually work well. 2. Go DEEPER. The most important thing here is to work out what you’re actually choosing. It’s actually something much deeper. Now, according to most seduction community literature, you should be learning how to stop getting nervous around girls in conjunction with a myriad of other problems… So, you should learn some body language tips so that you don’t “lean in” and don’t move your hands too much… You should learn some tapping techniques to eradicate the chest tightness. You should learn some openers to conceal the blank mind. And some proven DHV routines to stop your mindless mutterings. And some Alpha male mindsets to stop supplicating. 3. Is there a FASTER and EASIER way? What if there was a simple way to take care of ALL of those – at the same time? (yeah, and to stop getting nervous around girls, as well). I know it sounds like a little to good to be true. But think about this… 3. Your Nervousness Is Situational. Do you get nervous around your best mates? Do you get nervous watching TV with your family? Do you get a tightness in your chest in a movie cinema with your friends? How often do you experience anxiety while eating at your favourite restaurant? Yes, you probably do feel more comfortable in those “low pressure” places and that allows you to have a completely different experience of the world. But why? And how? 4. Getting Into STATE. So I want you to think back to one of your most enjoyable nights out, ever. It may have been a night out with the boys getting drunk and rowdy. It may have been since you joined the seduction community community, picking up girls, it might have just been laughing with a beautiful woman. It doesn’t matter. All that matters is that it was a night that was fun and very fulfilling. So now that you’re there, I want you to pay attention to one particular thing… 5. Your FOCUS. Were you focusing on the external world – like what people are doing, what that mean, sand what that means about you? Or were you focused on the internal world – on how you feel and what you desire to do? And how did that focus allow you to act? Did you check your actions, hiding the real you away because you were concerned about what other people think? Or did you freely follow your desires – not because you thought everyone liked you, but simply because you were not thinking about what other people think? And how did you feel because of the actions you take that come from the focus you have? Did you feel caged, trapped, scared and nervous? Or did you feel happy, joyous, free, and alive? 6. Were You NERVOUS?? On those nights, did you need body language tips, openers, routines, DHV’s and body tapping to help you stop getting nervous? Or was there just nothing to worry about? Now, I want you to run through the same questions over again, but this time for a night out where you didn’t enjoy yourself. 7. Imagine Your Worst Night Ever. Go on, actually do it. It’s important that you give it a shot because it’s the one thing that’s going to help you stop getting nervous around girls. So what do you think this all means? What’s the key element here? 8. Internal Focus. This is where most seduction community “gurus” will say, “It can’t be that easy!” Well, I’m pretty sure it can’t be as hard as most of those gurus make it. The structures, the routines, the openers, attraction switches, the DHV’s negs, more, more, more, more!!! How come when you’re in state, you don’t need to learn any of this? Have you ever wondered why picking up is so much easier when you just go out to have fun? Now, the fun part. This is where we dig deep. Whilst it can help you stop getting nervous around girls, it does require that you understand what’s going on underneath. 9. Fix Your Inner Game. You’re trying to get girls attracted to you for a reason. And, as a result you’re getting nervous around girls for a reason. Once you understand what that reason is, everything will change. (Hint: it has something to do with inner game).

9 Tips To STOP Getting Nervous Around GIRLS

 1. Find the CORE ISSUE.

Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms.
For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching, take the first step, and feel nervousness.
So they will try to clamp down on the nervousness. Suppress it. Or they just try to ignore it.
Needless to say, it doesn’t usually work well.

2. Go DEEPER.

The most important thing here is to work out what you’re actually choosing.
It’s actually something much deeper.
Now, according to most seduction community literature, you should be learning how to stop getting nervous around girls in conjunction with a myriad of other problems…
So, you should learn some body language tips so that you don’t “lean in” and don’t move your hands too much…
You should learn some tapping techniques to eradicate the chest tightness.
You should learn some openers to conceal the blank mind. And some proven DHV routines to stop your mindless mutterings.
And some Alpha male mindsets to stop supplicating.

3. Is there a FASTER and EASIER way?

What if there was a simple way to take care of ALL of those – at the same time? (yeah, and to stop getting nervous around girls, as well).
I know it sounds like a little to good to be true. But think about this…

3. Your Nervousness Is Situational.

Do you get nervous around your best mates? Do you get nervous watching TV with your family? Do you get a tightness in your chest in a movie cinema with your friends?
How often do you experience anxiety while eating at your favourite restaurant?
Yes, you probably do feel more comfortable in those “low pressure” places and that allows you to have a completely different experience of the world.
But why? And how?

4. Getting Into STATE.

So I want you to think back to one of your most enjoyable nights out, ever. It may have been a night out with the boys getting drunk and rowdy.
It may have been since you joined the seduction community community, picking up girls, it might have just been laughing with a beautiful woman.
It doesn’t matter. All that matters is that it was a night that was fun and very fulfilling.
So now that you’re there, I want you to pay attention to one particular thing…

5. Your FOCUS.

Were you focusing on the external world – like what people are doing, what that mean, sand what that means about you?
Or were you focused on the internal world – on how you feel and what you desire to do?
And how did that focus allow you to act?
Did you check your actions, hiding the real you away because you were concerned about what other people think?
Or did you freely follow your desires – not because you thought everyone liked you, but simply because you were not thinking about what other people think?
And how did you feel because of the actions you take that come from the focus you have? Did you feel caged, trapped, scared and nervous?
Or did you feel happy, joyous, free, and alive?

6. Were You NERVOUS??

On those nights, did you need body language tips, openers, routines, DHV’s and body tapping to help you stop getting nervous?
Or was there just nothing to worry about?
Now, I want you to run through the same questions over again, but this time for a night out where you didn’t enjoy yourself.

7. Imagine Your Worst Night Ever.

Go on, actually do it.
It’s important that you give it a shot because it’s the one thing that’s going to help you stop getting nervous around girls.
So what do you think this all means? What’s the key element here?

8. Internal Focus.

This is where most seduction community “gurus” will say, “It can’t be that easy!” Well, I’m pretty sure it can’t be as hard as most of those gurus make it.
The structures, the routines, the openers, attraction switches, the DHV’s negs, more, more, more, more!!!
How come when you’re in state, you don’t need to learn any of this? Have you ever wondered why picking up is so much easier when you just go out to have fun?
Now, the fun part. This is where we dig deep.
Whilst it can help you stop getting nervous around girls, it does require that you understand what’s going on underneath.

9. Fix Your Inner Game.
You’re trying to get girls attracted to you for a reason. And, as a result you’re getting nervous around girls for a reason.
Once you understand what that reason is, everything will change. (Hint: it has something to do with inner game).